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cyberthoth said...
Soonerprices you are right that I have not proven beyond a shadow of a doubt that gays were born gay but I have provided evidence that they are. Evidence that would be acceptable in a court of law.
What do you have that they weren't? (insert crickets here)
Bottom line, you're gonna have to bring something better than "the Bible says so."
This post was edited by soonerprices on 3/7/2011 at 10:17 AM
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godman said...
I have said before that much is lost trying to communicate via text as opposed to face to face conversations. Even phone conversations lose much without the visual contact. In addition to that there is the dynamic of anonymity. Interesting stuff to an analytical person like me.
Anyway, you would be very suprised if you met me as I get along with almost everyone quite well. The exception would be to extremely rude and obnoxious people. The latter is not experienced very often by me. By nature I have always been a quiet and easy going person.
I do take a hard line stance in regards to the truth but I do not intend for it to come across as being harsh or mean, just firm or unbending.
I will however seek the Lord in seeing how I may better serve Him in reaching people especially considering that people can easily mistake your intent and emotions seeing only text. Even in person, people can be taken the wrong way but at least it is a better and more effective way of communicating.
This is why I have told you dodger, that communication is not an exacting thing. It's not to make an excuse , it's just the truth. Surely you have experienced people misunderstanding your words or intent and not just because they are ignorant.
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godman said...
I understand what you are saying very well and I would rather you not be PC. I think that term and practice are disengenuous.
This is not my first discussion like this. I realize that most people do not believe like I do and that way too many do not believe in God or the bible at all (except when they face a life threatening situation).
If 99% of the population did not believe in God that still does not prove He does not exist. Denial is not proof. The truth of the matter is that no one can either prove or disprove God. Their is more evidence to indicate His existance however than there is to prove otherwise.
You can never win an argument with a true believer however because the thing you cannot know or experience is the regeerated spirit which believers experience and by which God is substantiated to them. God is Spirit and He is known to us via our regenerated spirit.
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godman said...
Do you ever just state your beliefs or opinions without having to try to put someone down? I spend too much time just answering your incorrect assumptions and accusations. For example, I don't even remember the context of a statement concerning genetics but I know I didn't say I don't believe in genetics as you would imply. I think I simply made a statement about not believing that genes were the CAUSE of things like alcoholism and homosexuality. You always apply a generous liberal interpretation of what ever I say just to have some mud to throw.
Funny that in a paragraph where I make the point about communication not being entirely precise and exacting that you misunderstand what I was saying. You should follow your own admonishing in careful comprehension while reading. LOL For example, I said, "Surely you have experienced people misunderstanding your words or intent and not just because they are ignorant." You thought I was talking about you being ignorant but if you look again, my reference to "you" was being the first person and not the last, or the speaker not the listener. Try again.
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cyberthoth said...
Klegg I don't know you and usually try to steer clear of making assumptions about people I don't know, but it's pretty clear to me you don't have many gay friends. You should spend some time talking with you know, actual gay people, before reaching any conclusions about them.
Let's take your questions. Gay people will tell you their sexual attraction to members of the same sex began around the same time they became attracted to other people. In other words, when their biology reached a sexual maturity it was attracted to members of the same sex. Really that's no different than you or me and I don't know about you but I am positively sure I was BORN STRAIGHT.
As far as animal species, there is evidence of homosexuality there. Google it. Plenty of studies have been done that show it happens.
To answer your third question you need to take an unbiased look at our society. Most gay people I know actually dated members of the opposite sex early in life because society taught them to be ashamed of what they were. Some lead lies for many years before they realized it was society that had the problem not them. I think the reverse could be true of some people later in life finding religion and using faith in God to lead a lie. I know one man for example that was gay and stayed married and had kids but never admitted it because he lived in a very religious community.
The other possibility may be that the people were never gay to begin with only curious. The world is not black and white and there are gay people who are gay and people who aren't but are only "trying new things" These people do end up marrying members of the opposite sex one day even though they may have spent years in a homosexual relationship. I have a lesbian friend that has had her heart broken many times from women leaving her for men (women who she knew weren't really gay but was attracted to anyway)
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As to your analogy on this, if you'd been around alcoholics at a young age and told "that's how you were born" you would be an alcoholic, I think you're missing a very obvious point here. It's not easy being an alcoholic if you're not really an alcoholic. It's hard on the body, relationships, jobs, ect.
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SoonerInTN said...
If you are going to get political, it runs the same for liberal democrats who want the government involved in your business except when it is in your personal business(sex, abortion, etc). So, yes it is a hypocritical stance by Repubs, but it is equally as hypocritical by the pro-abortion Dems.
Find me a pro-life democrat or a pro-choice republican and you will find someone who may not be a hypocrite.
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cyberthoth said...
Klegg the fact that millions of people say they were born gay IS evidence. I'll give you the point it isn't evidence beyond a shadow of a doubt but to pretend like it's not evidence is simply being intellectually dishonest.
Marriage is a basic human right. To take that away from someone because they were born different IS taking away a human right.
You find it funny I won't accept the word of millions of Christians, do you accept the word of millions of Hindus? We can play this game too. I've looked at Christianity with a logical mind and found it doesn't meet the logic test for me. I can't prove or disprove the faith that you have and won't try.
I will call Christians out though when they ignore inconvenient bits of their own history. Like the fact men, not God, but men selected what to put in the Bible and what not to put in the Bible.
This post was edited by Klegg on 3/8/2011 at 6:44 PM
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SoonerInTN said...
If you are going to get political, it runs the same for liberal democrats who want the government involved in your business except when it is in your personal business(sex, abortion, etc). So, yes it is a hypocritical stance by Repubs, but it is equally as hypocritical by the pro-abortion Dems.
Find me a pro-life democrat or a pro-choice republican and you will find someone who may not be a hypocrite.
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